Gay my first time

I remember my first time in a gay club so well, not because of the beautiful bar back whose name I cannot even recall. Not because I realized there is so much more gay life out there than my cloistered, short life had led me to believe. Sex between consenting adults can be a fun, funny, and even awkward experience, and it should go without saying that having a same-sex experience doesn't mean the person is queer. Overall, it was enjoyable. It hasn't happened again since we returned home — it was definitely just because of the circumstances of the trip and both of us finding out that we were interested in experimenting.

This is the story of my first time and, as many first times on anything, it didn’t´t go well because of my inexperience. Many say they knew they were gay their whole lives, not my case. Dad died when I was six. The rabbi who lived in the apartment below took over for him. My brother was four.

How did your first gay experience happen? Growing up I noticed that I had an attraction for men and women. I accepted the fact that I am bisexual at a very early age. NOW I am a 17 year old guy and have not yet had my first gay experience. I have been with maanny women though. There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. Your first queer date, whether that be in high school or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening shift.

On Reddit, gay men say they’ve met theirs on a dating app (after months of portentous dreams), at a party (after the other guy almost bailed), and even on a ropes course during an executive. Do you remember your first time? Your first experience with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?